Epi 86: The Ultimate Blueprint to Trusting Yourself
A misconception about loving ourselves has been touted by self-proclaimed personal development gurus that is dead wrong. Many believe that self-love is a one-off thing that we are “supposed to do.” Yet, the truth is that self-love is the result of healing, growth, and putting all the pieces of greatest selves into place. So, loving ourselves isn’t a “thing” we are supposed to do; it is “THE” thing that is the evidence of our growth.
This week we are taking a one-on-one deep dive into an essential life practice that must be in place for us to reach self-love.
What is it? It’s self-trust.
Together, we’re breaking down what true self-trust is, how you have more than you already know, how our behavior diminishes our self-trust, and then I’m handling o ver the blueprint to build unshakable trust.
So, let’s shift our perspectives and our ability to TRUST ourselves…
Key Takeaways:
00:00 Introduction
02:00 An understanding of self-love and how self-trust is necessary to get there
03:21 What self-trust is
04:36 How the lack of self-trust impacts us
08:00 Where self-trust comes from
08:46 Why many women don’t trust themselves
14:47 Spending time in negative criticism kills our self-trust—how to unwind the habit
18:27 There is a link between a lack of self-trust and anxiety, sleeping issues, health issues, and depression
19:50 Blueprint Step #1 Tune into your needs and instincts. How to tune in.
24:30 Blueprint Step #2 You must feel your feelings – You can find the Emotional Scale within the Get Your Life Together, Girl Women’s Circle
30:03 Blueprint Step #3 Stop setting unrealistic goals.
32:57 Blueprint Step #4 Be kind to yourself. Listen to the Confident Episode to help you gain the self-kindness and confidence
35:17 Blueprint Step #5 Be open with what’s on your mind and heart
37:33 Blueprint Step #6 Listen to yourself
40:05 Blueprint Step #7 Take risks
42:10 Blueprint Step #8 Learn to forgive yourself
47:34 Blueprint Step #9 Be more responsible to yourself
48:01 Blueprint Step #10 Reward yourself
48:58 Blueprint Step #11 Witness your strengths
50:31 Blueprint Step #12 Be Yourself
This is the true blueprint to self-trust. Each of these elements has to be in place for you to thrive in this trust fully. Once you put all of them into action, you gave the understanding that you have the power to do anything, to overcome any complicated situation and the willingness and strength to think for yourself, live as yourself, and freely be an authentic person. All of these pieces are necessary for self-love.
Put your blueprint in place. Build your self-trust. It is an essential element to getting and keeping your life together, girl.
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