Epi 359: How Do I Want To Feel?

We're in week three of our journey of exploring four key questions for a fulfilling life. We've asked what we want and need; today, we'll explore how we want to feel—a crucial question that goes beyond surface emotions like happiness or joy.

It's easy to say we want to be happy or content, but you must dig deeper. What are the underlying motivations behind these desires? By identifying these core emotions, you can better understand what drives you and what holds you back from achieving them.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

Recognizing barriers is crucial. Whether it's toxic relationships that drain your energy or negative self-talk that erodes your confidence, acknowledging these obstacles is the first step toward overcoming them. For instance, if you constantly feels overwhelmed due to a packed schedule driven by societal pressures rather than personal satisfaction, it might be time for introspection.

Identifying Deeper Motivations

• Questions to explore underlying motivations for wanting specific feelings

• Connection between emotions and personal desires

Overcoming Emotional Barriers

• Identifying internal and external obstacles preventing desired emotions

• Importance of recognizing emotional blocks

Reflective Exercise

• Instruction for self-reflection exercise on emotional challenges

• Encouragement to identify patterns, people, or situations as obstacles

Letting Go and Increasing Positives

• The importance of letting go and increasing positivity

• Strategies for letting go of emotional drains and increasing positive habits

Sustainable Changes

• Emphasis on making small, intentional shifts towards desired emotions

• Suggestions for creating sustainable emotional plans

Setting Intentions and Long-Term Goals

• Importance of intention-setting for emotional consistency

• Creating a detailed emotional plan with specific daily actions

Conclusion and Next Steps

• Preview of the next episode focusing on integrating all insights

• Encouragement to focus on emotions and take consistent action

Practical Takeaways:

1. Reflective Practice: Regularly assess your day-to-day feelings; understand what's blocking you from achieving them fully.

2. Let Go & Increase Strategy: Determine which aspects of life are draining vs. those that uplift you—adjust accordingly without drastic measures.

3. Consistent Habits Over Resolutions: Engage in manageable actions like practicing gratitude or meditation for long-term transformation rather than fleeting resolutions.

4. Self-compassionate Approach: Balance ambition with kindness towards yourself during this journey toward emotional well-being.

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